It's the final day of the challenge! I am really excited about completing this challenge. Tara did a superb job at delivering thought-provoking prompts each day. The 10-day challenge has really helped clear and rejuvenate my mind. It was really what it was, a challenge. I had to reach into the nooks and crannies of … Continue reading 🔆Decathexis🔆


🔆A Bias Towards Pronoia🔆

Pronoia is a neologism coined to describe a state of mind that is the opposite of paranoia. Whereas a person suffering from paranoia feels that persons or entities are conspiring against them, a person experiencing pronoia feels that the world around them conspires to do them good. I think pronoia is a mindset everyone should … Continue reading 🔆A Bias Towards Pronoia🔆

Me & Religion🌻

In Nigeria, religion is mainly categorised into three; Christianity, Islam and traditional worshippers. However, on forms and applications it's just two categories, Christianity or Islam. Hence, traditional worshippers have to pick their second best religion to fit in. Personally, religion(christainity) is a unique journey that I am very much discovering and learning. I understand the … Continue reading Me & Religion🌻


There are so many words used synonymously to mean "SEX" in Nigeria. Let me mention just a few: Knack Kpansh Mekwe Kolobi Shelling Lashing Yokopio Polash Kerewa Straff *Don't ask me how I know all these terms please🙄* So back to the kerewa issue, many people are really experimenting on a whole new level. It … Continue reading Kerewa